
A Ferrari Does Not Equal Success
We all know a Ferrari is expensive to buy, expensive to insure and expensive to maintain. They’re also not very practical as people carriers. Owning one, or even two Ferraris isn’t necessarily a sign of success in Internet marketing. It is not a qualification for giving other people business advice. When one of these vehicles appears on an Internet marketer’s pages it can mean one of two things:
a) You’re dealing with a narcissistic personality who is more concerned with their self image than your success, or
b) They’re faking it?
There are exceptions. One Internet marketer who once owned a Ferrari thought everyone in his home town hated him when he drove it, and so sold the car and moved away. Another took the extreme step in offering his Ferrari as a prize in a competition he was so keen to get rid of the thing!
If Push Button Wealth Were So Easy No One Would Be Selling It

There are people who develop software that is designed to provide you with backlinks, traffic, as well as place your advertisements on relevant pages throughout the Internet. It’s a world all of its own populated with characters who would not seem misplaced in a Steven Soderbergh movie. Lots of money changes hands. If the software on offer ever worked at all it’s only being offered at knock-down prices today because what worked then no longer works now. Sorry, if you pay $49 for such products you’re a bottom feeder, and will be eaten.
If Your Coach Looks Ill They Most Likely Are A Bad Example
During my time marketing on-line I’ve experienced a number of Internet marketing coaching programs. Most such programs are aimed at ‘newbies’, so called because they are entering the arena for the first time. Rarely are they true coaching programs in which participants get one on one time with their coach, but rather they work as courses in which the ‘coach’ presents some basic material and perhaps answers a few brief questions at the end of an on-line coaching session. Higher end coaching offers more useful information, but the downside is that time with your coach will still be limited especially when the coach is popular.
They say that doctors make poor patients, and this also holds true for coaches. It’s not that they’re faking the figures in their bank accounts but rather that the reason they do well is that they work hard, so hard in fact that many are visibly under pressure. A large cigar won’t distract from bags under your coaches eyes unless you want it to. Many coaches are driven to succeed by psychological forces that even they cannot understand. Whilst they may have several lines of passive income they continue to work for more than twelve hours a day. If you follow a sick looking coach have a care, separate the meat from the gristle, make money but live your own lifestyle.
You Cannot Go From Zero To $100,000 Without Paying A Price
This is not quite true, but it caught your attention didn’t it? If you’ve never earned more than $40,000 per year it’s difficult to manage a sudden bulge in your income. This is normal. You have encountered new territory and will make mistakes. If, however, you are used to earning a high salary, or have had some business success in the past then your sudden spurt of wealth is less likely to derail you.
I heard from someone recently who had made over $1,000,000 on-line and managed to breeze through most of it whilst gaining weight and making himself ill. He’s now having to build a new list and pretty much start over. The thing is though today he’s far better prepared to manage his money than before he had that experience.
There was once a program off-line called ‘Double Your Way To A Million’. The idea was that you found a coin in the road, and in a series of steps doubled your money all the way up to a million dollars. There were rules prohibiting you, for example, from using any of your own money or stealing resources such as photocopies from your employer. You simply had to double your funds with each step honestly. I never had the patience to get very far, but it’s a good game because it teaches you that the rules of making small amounts of money are different from those of dealing with large transactions.
Some Money Is Too Expensive
If you ask most Internet marketers what their most valuable asset is some will say ‘your mailing list’, and others will tell you ‘it’s your relationship with your list’. Neither is strictly true. Your most valuable assets are your style and your good name. Whilst these may not make your fortune immediately in the longer term they will pay dividends. It takes years to learn to be truly honest with yourself and others and even longer before others will be sure that they can trust you with big issues after just one or two meetings.
The problem is that when people enter the field of Internet marketing they rapidly acquire a little knowledge about basic skills, such as setting up an autoresponder, writing web-copy, and keyword research. The temptation is to consider that this knowledge is sufficient to create products, or teach others, how to be successful on-line. This is a mistake because even when others are taken in they will soon discover the lack of depth to your knowledge and never purchase from you again. Moreover, the world of the Internet is a smaller place than it seems. News of how you operate will spread and your business will suffer as a consequence.
Where Does That Leave You?
When the world dominating company Amazon.com started the computers took up so much power that the house they were in couldn’t be heated. A bell would sound everytime a sale was made and it was over ten days before anyone unrelated to the company founders bought a book on-line. Great Oaks, we are told, grow from little acorns. I’ve witnessed many businesses develop from a kitchen table, or a spare room. Study hard, lurk on some Internet marketing forums, avoid the next big thing, and above all scout around until you find a good Internet marketing coach, such as Lilach, who has been through a few of the hoops you will encounter and can shortcut your route into profit.

Please do share your comments and add any other essential tips that you think internet marketers should know about.
Lilach
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29 Responses to Five Essential Things New Internet Marketers Should Know
Thanks so much Stephen, this is a refreshingly honest article. Internet Marketing is all the range now, everyone wants a slice of the pie but I would urge anyone who is starting to read this for some home truths:)
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You and I know that it is possible to make a good living using the Internet Lilach. Unfortunately when people are starting out they are met with an array of offers and temptations.
It really is a mine-field. I believe, however, that when people stick with what is in their hearts, and patiently learn the ropes, there is plenty or room for all of us.
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Thank you for reminding us all that successful internet marketing is not about “get rich quick” solutions. I particularly like the “Some money is too expensive” point.
Very interesting reading.
Thanks Margaret, I agree completely with you and Stephen. There is no such thing as get rich quick – it doesn’t exist. Yes I also like Stephen’s “some money is too expensive” point
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Margaret, thanks for your comment. Yes ‘slow and steady wins the race’ as the tortoise said to the hare, but you can only win the race if you know the route and follow it faithfully. Decide who you want to be, and the kinds of products and services you want to promote, create a marketing plan and stay with it long enough.
These are the essentials. Also remember that success feels like failure until your 95% there. I took a moment to look at how you’ve been writing about Twitter and really think you already have the right attitude.
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We learn by doing what we have to do (or something like that). It’s a quote I learned from Julia Cameron.
Thanks Jim:) Not heard that quote before but thanks for sharing.
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I believe John Wayne said something similar in the 1939 John Ford western ‘Stagecoach Lilach:
“A man’s(sic) gotta(sic) do, what a man’s(sic) gotta(sic) do”
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Love this quote Stephen
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It can be hard to find a good coach but it does seem that in this industry, you get what you pay for.
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Duke, to my mind it’s essential to find someone who will connect you with your core passions and identity, and help you build your business from those.
Many coaches in the IM field simply provide you with information about how to sell to other IM newbies. That’s O.K. if it’s really your passion, and you know enough to sell with integrity, but if that’s not where you’re at then your work will be like pushing water uphill with a stick!
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Thanks Duke, I agree. It’s like outsourcing, if you outsource overseas although it’s cheaper you do pay for what you get. I guess it’s like everything in life, if you want quality, you have to pay for it:)
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As the saying goes, if you can get rich quick, you can lose it even faster. I’m all for building the business to last. Sure it takes a little longer but what’s the point if it does not last?
thanks post guys
Terry
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Terry, strangely enough I was reading a post over at Tim Ferris blog today all about how to build a winning business in a weekend.
I think the author leaves something out. The fact is his post is incredibly detailed and the process adopted certainly wasn’t learned in a weekend.
Whenever I write something, or make a photograph, and people ask how long it took me I always say: ’60 years’, well not always, last year I would have said ’59′ but you get the point I’m sure?
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Terry I liken it also too – lose weight quickly – put it back on faster!
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Great post Stephen I particularly liked this quote: “Your most valuable assets are your style and your good name.” So true, in my opinion there are many so called gurus out there with big lists who no longer gain any respect from people.
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Thanks for dropping by here David and commenting. Yes really rather than attempting to sell stuff to people we need to be turning our visitors into advocates for your products and services. If you start with that aim, then everything else runs relatively smoothly.
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agree… as a marketer, I see there is so much to learn, and only so many hours in the day – who’s kidding who with overnight success! I too am in it for the long haul – thanks
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Val, of course I understand what you mean by ‘the long haul’, but I don’t see projects in that way. I see them more like living my life.
At one time in England milk was delivered to the doorstep in glass bottles. The trick was to purchase the right amount of milk every day, use it, and return the bottles to the doorstep ready for the next delivery.
Buy too much milk and you would have to make a rice-pudding; too little and no milk would be available to go in your coffee. Chaotic people would put their milk-bottles out unwashed, which was considered as sign of a dirty household and so frowned upon.
So the task is to use what you’ve got productively. Don’t be concerned with what goes on at the farm, if the cowman is having an affair with the postmistress, or even if the foreman at the dairy is a bully. Those aren’t your concerns. Your job is keep being nourished by that milk, and be sure not to develop lactose intolerance!
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I love your comment, Stephen, ” if you pay $49 for such products you’re a bottom feeder, and will be eaten.” My initial reaction was: I’ve been there, done that, had the teeth marks to prove it!
But it took a big swallow of one’s pride to realise how silly or naive I’d been – so I chose to write about that experience, in the similar hope of steering others away from making the same mistake.
After all, we’re all humans living in a fast paced, disposable world where our appetite for instant results is only getting bigger and bigger – it’s sad though that unethical people in the online world prey on such stupidity.
Great share
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Fiona, take heart. We’ve all done it, although I never fell for this particular scam I certainly bought into a few previously.
The key to detecting them is in the sales patter. When the presenter says something like: ‘Are you fed up with all the hype, and B.S. about Internet products that offer you amazing results with no effort?’ you may be pretty sure it’s going to be a scam.
The thing is it sounds like the presenter is on your side, but in fact they’re identifying and pacing the target market i.e. desperate gullible people. The copy, often a video is very well written copy and frequently also very well produced. There’s money in this for someone, but it won’t be for you.
Thanks for being open here on this page. Only by admitting to such errors can any of us move forward, and maybe also clean up this potentially wonderful industry.
Stephen
P.S. Love the image of Greg and your feet over in Vermont
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Another great post loved it and so many true points. If you could spend $50 and from that make $30,000 like i see some websites claim then everyone will be doing it. Got to learn the industry and the skills and build your business in a honest way
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Lewys thank you for your endorsement. I can tell from your presentation that you’re someone with passion, and you’re right to be drawing attention to the franchise model over at your web site.
But mate, that pint of beer don’t half look flat?
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I couldn’t agree more with what this post has to say. I’m quite a newbie having only been in the game for a year and I’ve found the hardest thing is finding honesty, especially when purchasing affiliate course products offering the world and more. I’ve also found too many product reviews that are really just sales pages and I’ll be the first to admit that when I started all I was after was the same thing “get rich quick” “think about the money” etc. I’ve ditched the niche micro sites where I have no passion and started my blog to share my experience along my journey, give inspiration and value by really concentrating on honesty, sincerity and integrity. My plan now is a 5 year plan to learn, develop and share as opposed to a 5 day plan to own a Ferrari!
Rodderz, you’re learning fast:)
I would recommend to any newbie to put your wallet away and take time to find blogs that provide free information for you. There are a lot of products out there that just don’t deliver the goods and are sold on the back of hype.
Another tip is to join the Warrior Forum’s War room where you can often get people’s products for free (there is a small fee to join but it’s well worth it in my opinion).
Best of luck on your journey:)
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@Rodderz I’ve replied with some encouragement over on your blog
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Rodderz, thanks for your comment on my guest post here. I just dropped some encouragement for you over on your own web site
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Hi Lilach,
Killer article by Stephen! I think that there can’t possibly be enough of this tough love/common sense approach in the marketing world these days. I think that there’s so much hype and spam in the world that we need more beacons of light shining the truth for the masses to heed.
Sure, not everyone is prepared to listen to the sound advice til they’ve been on a few expensive carnival rides, but that shouldn’t stop the consummate pros from bringing a dose of reality.
The magic button phenomenon never ceases to amaze me. Between that an the allure of “perpetual motion” we have a couple white buffaloes that are easily exploited to those who want quick money.
The best shortcut I’ve learned thus far is to be decisive and committed. If you laser focus and commit to the ONGOING experience that is internet marketing, you’ll get there quicker than if you are seduced into every diversion that crops up along the path!
Way to go on these, I really enjoyed the points!
Cheers,
Cat Alexandra
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Great advice! In my experience, nothing beats passion and focus for launching any new endeavor and grow a business! There are no real shortcuts to true success, there are however many innovative ideas which might work if they are worked consistently.
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